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Using a TFP Fertility sperm donor

Is sperm donor conception right for you?

For many people, particularly those in the LGBTQ+ community, their journey to parenthood is not possible without the help of a sperm donor.

Using donated sperm in your fertility treatment is a significant decision. We're here to support you as you decide whether donor sperm conception is the right choice for you.

Our team of doctors and nurses will be able to advise on the best treatment pathway for you and your family. But we are likely to recommend donor conception if:

  • You are pursuing solo parenthood

  • You are a same-sex female couple

  • Your own sperm is unlikely to result in a successful pregnancy

  • You are at risk of passing on an inherited disease

Sperm donor recipient process at TFP Fertility

What is the sperm donor recipient process?

The sperm donor recipient process will look a little different depending on your personal circumstances, for example, whether you're an individual, couple or same-sex couple.

After deciding that sperm donor conception is right for you, you'll firstly need to choose your sperm donor. This can be through a licensed fertility clinic or sperm donation bank or you may choose a known donor, for example, a friend or family member.

How to find your sperm donor

If you're thinking about building your family with the help of sperm donation, the first step is knowing where to find a donor that's right for you.

One way of finding a donor is through a licensed fertility clinic; this ensures all of the necessary medical and legal processes are in place so that your treatment is safe and has the best possible chances of success.

TFP fertility clinic donor bank

1. Choose from your clinic's donation bank

Some fertility clinics have their own donation banks with catalogues of sperm donors for you to choose from. Waiting lists for donors can be lengthy so it's essential to check the current wait times before making a commitment to ensure the estimated wait time aligns with your treatment.

Use a known sperm donor

2. Use a known donor

Some people are fortunate to have a friend or family member willing to be their donor. If you wish to use a known donor, they must undergo the same stringent testing as anonymous donors to ensure they are suitable to donate. Additionally, there are restrictions on mixing sperm and eggs between close relatives. Get in touch to find out how this works.

Use a sperm donor online

3. Find donor sperm online

You can purchase donor sperm from accredited sperm donation banks online and have them shipped to your chosen clinic for treatment. You must ensure your sources are credible and meet the medical and legal requirements for donation. We recommend you confirm the cost of purchasing and shipping your sperm before proceeding.

Counselling and support

Fertility treatment of any kind can be emotionally and physically exhausting; it's important that you have someone to talk to throughout the process.

At TFP Fertility, we have specialist counsellors ready to help you explore however you're feeling and highly experienced nurses and consultants who can answer any questions you have about using donor sperm in your treatment.

During your counselling sessions, you'll discuss the implications of using a sperm donor and what this may mean for you and your family in the future. This includes:

  • The welfare of any child born as a result of egg, sperm or embryo donation

  • The rights of the child regarding conveying information surrounding their conception

  • The implications of donor anonymity

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Donor conception FAQs

What are the risks of using a donor?

When purchasing sperm through a licensed fertility clinic, there are few risks to worry about. Your care is our priority; we ensure your safety and legal protection so that your fertility journey is as seamless as possible.

At TFP Fertility, all prospective donors are screened for serious illnesses, infections (including STIs) or genetic diseases that pose a risk to either the birth mother or potential future children. We'll also ensure all of the correct processes are in place and paperwork is filled out to guarantee consent and legal parenthood.

Does the donor have any rights to conceived children?

In the event that you achieve a pregnancy with donor eggs or sperm you may be wondering about any rights the donor has to future children. If you choose a donor through a licensed fertility clinic in the UK, they will have no legal rights or responsibilities to any children born as a result of their donation. This means that:

  • They won’t be required to financially support the child in any way

  • They will not be named on the birth certificate

  • They won’t have the right to say how the child will be raised


It is important to know that if you do not choose a donor from a licensed clinic and try another route instead, there is a risk that they will be considered a parent in the eyes of the law. This means that they will have all the rights and responsibilities that parenting a child brings. As you can tell, how you find a donor and who you choose can have a significant impact on the future.

What can I find out about a potential donor?

Many people wonder how much information they can find out about a donor before they go ahead with fertility treatment. In the UK, there is a limit to the information you can find out. However, your fertility clinic will be able to provide you with the following information about your donor:

  • The donor’s age

  • A physical description (height, eye colour, hair colour and weight)

  • Ethnicity

  • Whether they have had any children already and how many


A donor’s anonymity is of the utmost importance in the UK. Therefore, you won’t be able to find out any personal information that may reveal their identity.

Can you pay a donor in the UK?

In the UK, it is illegal to pay someone for their egg and sperm donation. This means that those donating sperm, eggs or embryos are doing so for reasons other than financial gain.

Donors can, however, be compensated for any expenses accrued during their donation. This can be used to cover things like travel, accommodation and any loss of earnings. A sperm donor can receive up to £35 per clinic visit during their donation whilst egg donors are entitled to up to £750 per donation cycle.

How do you manage donations to your bank?

Putting your trust in the TFP Fertility donor bank

When you choose your egg or sperm donor through TFP Fertility, your health and wellbeing is our number one priority and we do our utmost to ensure your legal and medical protections throughout the process.

This means all of our donors are subject to stringent medical testing and genetic screening. Not only does this ensure our patients are matched to their perfect donor, we can be confident there are no serious medical conditions or inherited diseases that could be passed onto the birth mother or any children conceived.

10-family limit

We also adhere to the UKs 10-family limit. That means that any one of our donors can only donate to a maximum of 10 families.

Purchasing samples from other banks

To help meet the needs of our patients, we may buy in samples from other licensed donor banks or fertility clinics but we do so with a high level of caution, ensuring those that are purchased meet the same legal and medical requirements as those from our own donor programmes.

You should know that the eggs and sperm donated to TFP Fertility via our donor programmes are reserved for TFP Fertility patients and will not be resold to other banks or fertility clinics. Though rare, the exception to this would be in the instance that a patient has had successful treatment using a donor with us and wishes to purchase additional samples so that they may try for a biological sibling at another clinic.

Choosing a donor elsewhere

Of course, patients are free to purchase eggs or sperm from other accredited sources and there is also the option of using a known donor. We can help talk you through these options so that you can decide the one that's right for you.

If you have any concerns or further questions, please get in touch

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