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Fertility options for lesbian women

We’ve helped many same-sex female partners and lesbian individuals to become parents. Every family and fertility journey is unique. We’re here to help build yours in a way that's right for you.

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Fertility options for lesbian couples and individuals

For lesbian couples and individuals, co-parents and poly families who want to become parents, there are several possible paths to parenthood and we’ll support you every step of the way.

Our fertility options include intrauterine insemination (IUI) with donor sperm, IVF with donor sperm, and reciprocal IVF where one partner's egg is fertilised and placed in the womb of the other partner.

You will also be supported by specialist LGBTQ+ fertility counselling throughout.

Before you start treatment, a fertility assessment can help us understand which options are best for you.

Intrauterine insemination with donor sperm

If you don’t have any fertility challenges, you can consider intrauterine insemination (IUI).

IUI is when sperm from a donor is injected directly into the uterus, where it fertilises the eggs naturally. This is also called artificial insemination.

You can have IUI using sperm from a licensed donor bank or from someone you know.

We always recommend IUI at a licensed fertility clinic, instead of home insemination.

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IVF for same-sex female couples

If you have fertility challenges, IVF can increase your chances of a successful pregnancy. You can use your own eggs or donated eggs for IVF.

During IVF, hormones are taken to stimulate egg growth to increase the chance of more eggs being collected. The eggs are then removed from the ovaries and fertilised with donated sperm in a lab. You can use sperm from a sperm bank or a known donor.

A fertilised egg (embryo) is then placed back inside the womb to grow.

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Reciprocal IVF

Reciprocal IVF is also called ROPA or shared motherhood/parenthood.

It enables two female partners or co-parents to have a biological connection to their child by sharing the IVF process.

In reciprocal IVF, the eggs from one partner are retrieved and fertilised, before being placed in the womb of the other partner, who carries the pregnancy.

We’ve helped many partners become parents through reciprocal IVF. Reciprocal IVF can use sperm from a known person or a sperm donor.

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Finding a sperm donor

Using an sperm donor

If you’re looking for a sperm donor for IUI or IVF treatment, we can help you find the right match, either through our own sperm bank or from other trusted sources in the UK or abroad.

To help you choose your ideal donor, we'll give you as much information about them as possible.

We make sure any potential donor has all the appropriate tests for infections, diseases, and genetic conditions.

You can also use a known donor. This is when someone you already know donates their sperm. This could be a friend or a family member who isn’t related to the person whose eggs you’ll use.

Our same-sex female parent success stories

Support and more resources

There can be a lot to think about when exploring fertility treatment as an LGBTQ+ person. Find support resources dedicated to you.

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Counselling and support groups

Our specialist LGBTQ+ fertility counselling, and where you can find more support.
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Legal and funding FAQs

What to know before exploring fertility treatment as an LGBTQ+ person.
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Home insemination

Everything you need to know about home insemination, including the legal and medical risks.
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Paying for fertility treatment

Surrogacy treatment is not funded by the NHS. Get to know your payment options.
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Ready to start your fertility journey? We're here for you

Speak to our patient support team for advice about your options and to book your first consultation with a fertility expert.