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How we support our egg donors

Choosing to donate your eggs is one of the most significant decisions you will make. We're here to guide you every step of the way.

Who can become an egg donor

Giving the gift of parenthood

Donating your eggs to help an individual or couple have a child is one of the most generous gifts you can give. But the decision to donate is life-changing and can come with its challenges along the way.

Getting the right support is fundamental to your donation journey, ensuring you are mentally, emotionally and physically ready and we're here to help in whatever way we can.

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Knowing what to expect

Knowing what to expect from the egg donation process and how you may feel along the way may offer peace of mind. Throughout your donation, it is normal to feel:

  • Intense emotions with ups and downs similar to those experienced during menstruation

  • Under pressure due to the physical demands of egg donation and anxious about whether it will work

  • Stressed about attending multiple appointments (usually 7-9 over a few weeks)

  • Tired and bloated towards the end due to the stimulation medication used

Despite this, many of our donors find that donating their eggs was easier than they expected and some go on to become repeat donors.

The challenges at the time often give way to positive feelings, especially when it’s a success.

It's important to know that you are not alone throughout this journey. If you're struggling at any point, you can reach out to our Patient Support Team at any time or contact your Donor Co-Ordinator with any questions or concerns you may have.

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Specialist counselling

Specialist counselling sessions are requirement for all of our donors to ensure you have the space to explore every aspect of your donation.

You'll have the opportunity to discuss:

  • How you feel about egg donation now and what could happen in the future

  • Whether you'll tell your partner or children and the impact of this

  • How you'll feel if any donor-conceived children were to contact you.

To get the most out of your session, it may be helpful to think about the questions you want to ask.

  • How likely is it that my donation will lead to a birth?

  • How can I talk to my partner, family or children about being an egg donor? And what could happen if I choose not to?

  • Do the parents have to tell their child they came from a donor egg?

  • If any children decide to contact me in future, how can they do it? How could this affect me or my family in the future?

How TFP Fertility supports our eggs donors

Additional resources

If you're looking for impartial advice or support, we recommend the following resources:

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Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA)
The HFEA is the UK's independent regulator of fertility treatment and research using human embryos. They provide useful information and advice for anyone considering a donation
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Donor Conception Network
The Donor Conception Network is the UK's first and largest charity dedicated to supporting donor conception families. They also offer support, videos and resources for those considering becoming a donor.
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Speak to our patient support team for advice about your options and to book your first consultation with a fertility expert.